A New Normal

It's mid-October here in Wilmington, yet it feels like a summer day in New York. We've been enjoying temperatures in the 80s, cooler nights, and clear skies. We've been told repeatedly that this is the best time of year here in North Carolina, and we agree...at least so far. We do miss, however, the colorful foliage. It just doesn't "feel" like fall.

As we're agreeing with the weather, we are also agreeing with our "new normal." John and Lizzie are settled into school, having 8, 9 and 10 days (scale of 1-10) rather than the 2 and 3 days they had reported for a stretch a few weeks back. Lizzie climbed in the van at the beginning of the month excited to share her "10" day. She had been elected class president for October and was quite proud of the new "title". We asked if we should call her Queen Lizzie, she said no...just President Elizabeth :) John is enjoying his classes and often reports something interesting or fun he learned that day. He tried sushi last week as he was studying Japan in one of his classes.

My new normal consists of working at the kids school (Rachel Freeman) every morning. My technical title is "Reading Interventionist"...big words for Reading Helper. I meet with 4 small groups each day in an attempt to build their reading skills. I have 2 Kindergarten groups, 1 first, and 1 second...the hardest part so far has been learning their names: Silque (pronounced Silk), Kevanni, Kaziah, Amareyon, Amiracle, Khymek...we have entered a new culture. All in all, it's been a positive experience. My school day ends at 12:00 noon, so I have time to work on projects for Crosswinds and get all those errands done before our family time after school.

Mark continues to enjoy his part time work at the machine shop. We all leave at the same time every day and return home after school together. This allows time for homework, Mark's online classwork, and flexibility in family time activities. We realize that this concentrated family time is a short lived season and we are enjoying the flex time while we have it. Mark has finished his first 2 classes...both with A's, and will begin two more next week. In the near future, he will also help out cousin Mike Brown on some construction projects...just on a short term basis. Mike and Suz live just outside Myrtle Beach, just an hour south of us.

God's plans for Crosswinds Church are being revealed and taking form...they are anything BUT normal! We are excited about where God has led us this far, and are confident that HE is doing something BIG. Leland is the area of Wilmington we are "targeting"...it is growing, growing, growing and there really is no church in the immediate vicinity. We are praying fervently about location. Space is costly, but so critical for the long term vision....where does risk meet faith? In the meantime, our first community "encounter" will be November 1st. We'll be participating in one of the home associations' "fall festival". Please pray will us for creativity in outreach, confidence in building relationships, and faith to do what God is asking of us. Thanks to each of you who uphold our family and this church in your prayers.

Part of this journey is teaching us that we cannot and should not be striving for "normal". Yes, there is safety, predictability, and even comfort in "normal", but God is BIG. He wants to do BIG things...not just normal things. I think I've been struggling up til now trying to hold on to what used to be normal for us...our 'New York normal'. Quite honestly, I loved our 'New York normal'...our friends, our school, our jobs, our church, our family, our schedule, our home... we all loved our normal. Six months ago, God put our 'normal' in a blender and served us an adventure that would challenge us beyond our comfort, and would strip us of all that was predictable. Our challenge now? Living in faith every day, trusting in the Sovereignity of our Almighty God who knows us better than we know ourselves. Do we believe that HE IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS...and that He will do what He has promised?

Psalm 40

I waited patiently for the LORD:

he turned to me and heard my cry.

He lifted me out of the slimy pit,

out of the mud and mire;

He set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.

He put a new song in my mouth,

a hymn of praise to our God.

Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD.

Blessed is the man who makes the LORD his trust,

who does not look to the proud, to those who turn aside to false gods.

Many, O LORD my God, are the wonders you have done.

The things you planned for us no one can recount to you;

were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare...

Then I said, "Here I am , I have come--

it is written about me in the scroll.

I desire to do your will, O my God;

Your law is within my heart....